Testimonials

real people, real results.

Construction Project Manager

“I always knew my 47 years of emotional baggage was affecting who I was, how I behaved and how I handled situations in my personal and professional life. On the most part always, I wanted to be and do better, my behavior was not solely based on the facts at the time but also the life of wrongs I brought with me. After one session I now have a peace I never thought possible, which in turn has given me a new found confidence to handle anything my life will throw at me. Thank you, Rob and MEM.”

 

 

I want  to let people know of the wonderful work that Rob Tichelaar is doing with his MACE therapy techniques.

I have been experiencing significant anxiety and automatic negative thoughts particularly since separating from my husband of 10 years.

I found that our relationships have deteriorated so badly and the separation had become so acrimonious that I no longer knew how to not feel instantly scared, anxious or threatened whenever receiving any correspondence or at any interaction that I had with my ex-husband.

In preparation for meeting him in court in regards to our children, I engaged with Rob and found his method to have such a wonderfully calming effect.  He helped me recognise my learned responses, and how to subsequently manage those immediate feelings.

He has taught me techniques to manage my emotions in these settings and has shown me how to get past the things holding me back.

I have since been to court and been free of the previous anxiety and distress.  I feel much calmer and capable, and now manage my emotions, own my feelings, and move forward positively in my own life free from my previous burdens.

 

 I cannot thank Rob enough for all he has done for me at this distressing and tumultuous time.

Doctor

 

 

Office Manager

“As I started to climb up the corporate ladder, I felt a sense of anxiety, a sense of “Can I do this”/“Am I good enough?”
After my session with Rob I felt a sigh of relief. Who knew that digging into my consciousness and identifying certain moments and fear throughout my life that I just ignored and eliminating them using this method would lift that anxiety?

I am not one for expressing my feelings out loud so that fact that I didn’t have to tell him anything about my life made me feel calm and open to achieving results in the session. I walked in to work the following week to start my first day in management and I felt confident and ready to take on the challenge.

Thank you Rob, for helping me get through this hurdle.”

 

 

Business Coach and HR Consultant

Once we truly understand as individuals that we hold the power to be, do and have whoever / whatever we want - the sky is the limit. 

And I guess going through the MEM sessions with Rob helped be truly believe this. But the key is in the WANTING to make this change. And not necessarily to wait until you are in trauma or at your lowest point before we to do something about it. 

Being non-disclosure therapy, I have been able to remove some identities I have created for myself through experiences I have never told a soul about. Ones that im embarrassed about or that I have not been able to talk about (which is big for me because generally I’m an open book). Doing this inner work has just helped me move forward and reduce the negative patterns I have been repeating for many years. 

As a HR practitioner and business coach I have a super big interest in how we can increase emotional intelligence and I’m always seeking different tools that can assist this for me and my clients. In my mind, the first step in this is awareness and that’s exactly what MACE gives you. The chance to become aware of what has been in your way of achieving your goals and the simple methodology that can help you remove those blocks - and not just in the short term, but forever. 

This to me is a game changer when it comes to developing emerging leaders and creating high performing teams in the business space. But that also has a twofold effect. If we can assist people in business with their mindset then it will have a ripple effect into their personal life - and vice versa.  

Personally, I have been able to move my business forward in a way that I have been trying to for the past 12 months, but I kept coming up with resistance, after resistance. And I was also self-sabotaging my success. I knew this but didn’t know how to stop it. Since attending sessions with Rob I have powered ahead with my business. Not because now suddenly clients are coming out of the woodwork but because 

  1. I believe in what I am doing is exactly where I need to be right now.

  2. I have this newfound confidence and certainty in what i need to be sharing with the outside world in order to serve businesses in the way I want to serve.

  3. I’m so much more focused because I believe in myself. I am capable. I am worthy. I am great at what I do.

This is shining through in conversations I have and I’m making connections I never thought I would.  

Bring. It. On. 

It’s been a super fun and busy month since starting this process with Rob. But I am so energised and excited about what’s next. My family also are seeing the positive effect it has had on me - I’m much calmer and finding joy in just about everything I do. The kids are loving having a present mum again. And I’m loving the increasing bank balance!!!


 

 Michelle, Teacher

“I was fortunate to meet Rob while on holidays where I was received a therapy session with him. I was so impressed with his professionalism and the support he provided to me throughout the session. I was able to let go of many emotional disturbances which I could see were holding me back and preventing me from moving on. After one session, I felt lighter in my body as I was no longer holding onto any anxious feelings that would prevent me from living life to the full. Within a week after the first session, Rob promptly arranged a follow-up phone session where he checked in on how I was feeling to ensure we had really got to the root of the upsets and that they had been eliminated completely. All I can say is that as a school teacher, it has been a real gift to experience the power of the Mace Energy Method (MEM) and I can see how this program has enormous potential in supporting other teachers to improve their well-being and confidence. Rob has a genuine passion for supporting people to reach their full potential through the Mace Energy Method (MEM) as he knows through his own personal experience with the program and through the many lives he has transformed through his work as a MEM practitioner of the power of this therapy. Thanks Rob. I will always be deeply grateful to you.”

 

 

Steve R. Truck driver

“Hi, my name is Steve. I’ve been suffering from depression and anxiety for many years now, however since being guided through the mace energy method I’ve been able to eliminate all hidden thoughts and memories that trigger such depression and anxiety episodes! I now truly feel I’m on top of my game! Thanks, so much Rob! To anyone thinking of doing the mace energy method, I could not recommend this highly enough! It has turned my life completely around and I believe it can do the same for anyone!”

 

 

Just wanted to thank you for introducing me to Causism and your lovely Sharon for promoting what you do. Without us crossing paths my life would be very different right now.  Not only did you help me purge negative feelings towards myself and my life but in doing that I am now in control of the drinking habit I had developed many years ago to cope with many nasty things that had happened in my life.  I had tried many things in the past but to no success - I started thinking I would always be that way ... but then you came along with the MEM therapy and wow! After a week of working with you - ie. 2 sessions - one face to face and one by phone - 
The difference was astounding.  So much So that now I have decided to study as a practitioner and help you and others take this to the world!  I will now not only realise my dream of being changed but also my passion to help others. 

Addiction

 

 

Single Mother

“After Rob gave me a Mace Energy Method Session, and as time went on, I know this method has changed my life. My life is now mine again - I am able to live life, love others and be confident! Confident in myself and in my future.

With them MEM I was able to dig deep into my consciousness to identify the trauma, anxiety, bodily issues, fears and to be honest so many other issues that I didn’t even know were residing deep within me and eliminate those identities that were created.

The MEM is for me amazing and the sense you don’t have to tell anyone what the trauma, feelings, addictions or whatever it is you have to deal with- you simply don’t have to ‘talk’. You can just deal with whatever is holding you back and become the best version of yourself.

After the MEM session ended, I felt so happy, so free, so light in a sense. The negative feelings and thoughts were no longer weighing me down and to be honest you could not wipe the smile from my face. I now feel so confident in the future ahead of me and excited with what is to come, that is all thanks to Rob and the Mace Energy Method.”


 

Sandra

“Robert guided me through his program a few weeks ago and I have to state that not only the amazing script but also his insightful guidance did help me to work profoundly on certain issues that I had ignored, forgotten or denied over the years. Often specific traumas or events can leave us with emotional injuries, many of them hidden underneath a lot of layers of subconsciousness. Yes, they can cause sometimes drastic consequences in our lives if not addressed properly. Although I worked thoroughly and spiritually on my wellbeing over the last month, I admit that a few issues simply fell through the radar and thanks to Robert we managed to find and release them quite fast and efficient! I recommend Roberts services to everyone who needs healing of any emotional burdens of their past.”

 

 

Dual Nationality

“When I had a session with Robert I was frustrated because I did not understand what he wanted me to do at the beginning. I was telling him that I don’t understand, I can’t do this. I thought this session didn’t work well for me. He tried and tried and took long time to guide me to get a point that I suddenly understood. I felt all cloud in my head disappeared. I was feeling so light. I thought I was flying in blue sky. And I was laughing!

Now I understand that I am the one who creates everything, who
chooses to create and who can choose not to create. This discovery is a
treasure. I am enjoying choosing my feeling now.”

Thank you so much to Robert!

 

 

Natural Practitioner

“As a Natural Practitioner, I was very interested in learning more about the Mace Energy Method. Many of my clients have issues with depression and/or anxiety or irrational fears, and I am always looking for ways to help them, and people to refer to. I had a session with Rob recently to try it out for myself. I was very surprised to find that I was quickly and easily bought back to old memories from the past – memories that I had completely forgotten about, but now I could visualize easily. Along with the visions were the feelings attached …embarrassment, lack of self-worth, etc., etc. … back from school days. Rob skillfully led me through processes to release the feelings attached to each memory that came up, and very quickly the feelings were gone.

During the short follow up session, I was able to tell Rob the differences I noticed in myself that past week. Most notably, when situations arose where I felt frustrated (this happened to be by a tradesman that was pushing my buttons at the time!) – I found I reacted very differently. Instead of getting frustrated and annoyed at the tradesman, I actually laughed and found it all quite funny. I feel like this has continued, and I don’t get so wound up about the little things. I feel calmer and more relaxed in stressful situations which is wonderful!

I would definitely recommend Rob – he is a great practitioner who really
cares and is passionate about helping people.”

 

Feel Safe, non-disclosure Therapy

Whatever it is, I understand, I hear you.